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Britain and it’s backbone – From Facebook

I don’t know who “They” are but “They” say, never to speak about: – Politics, Religion & Beliefs, Ethnicity & Colour or Sex and Gender.
I like to call them all, “Life Issues” and will continue to discuss them and write about them on my Blogs and in my notes.
I saw this particular graphic (Shared from the Mr Bonehead facebook page) on a secondary school friends posting.

I’ believe people should be allowed to share how they feel, I just love openness and honesty and this particular graphic made interesting reading.

The foundation of relationships

First and foremost God commanded us to Love each other and he consistently emphasised that command when he put on flesh and walked amongst us as a man.
Read :-

The Bandwagon – From Facebook

The Bandwagon…
There are :-
A) Those with ‘vision’, with a clear UN-wavering objective, who set out to build it, as they can see where it could go and how it could help others.

B) Those who gladly help A) and enjoy the long-term benefits thereafter, while they see how it helps others.

C) Those who begin to help A) and start well, until the going gets tough…they walk away.Only justified if A) loses sight of the original vision, not justified if there’s an aversion to hard work.

D) Those who could help A) but wished they thought of building the bandwagon themselves, then go off and attempt to build it.
These usually have the biggest mouths and fool ‘some’ into thinking they had the initial vision, usually failing, when they realise how hard the work of A) can be.

E) Those that believe that it should be built by anyone else apart from A) and are ready to tell A) that other people are already doing something similar.

F) Those who could help A) to build it faster but want glory and extra recognition and think…”What’s in it for me?” and therefore withhold their help.

G) Those that always have a critique and tell A) what they should do… but never help out in the building process.

H) Those who could help A) but because A) is not part of their ‘gang’…they withhold their help.

I) Those who use the ‘self-exclusion’ excuses claiming they don’t need to help…using the “if it’s meant to be”…or the “If God is in it…” lines to justify their lack of help.

J) The ‘Saboteurs’…those who go out of their way to deliberately block, hinder or discredit for whatever ‘reasons’ they believe they have.

K) The ‘voyeurs’, who do not offer any help but are ready to jump on the bandwagon once it’s built and rolling along.

To all type A) and B) people…I encourage you to keep believing, remain clear and focused and keep building.

To the A types…if you build it, the B types will come.

To the B types…if you can see that the A type is serious and clear with their vision, if you help them, you will receive the benefits to.

Attack – From Facebook

Attack on the elderly/pensioners, attack on the regular (financially challenged) people who have more than 2 children, attack on the young who (for whatever reason) fall pregnant and decide to have their baby instead of abort.
On one hand pretending to care about the above, whilst preaching the ‘hard earned’ subliminal indoctrinating message to the masses, through the news and media, in an attempt to get the masses to think negatively about those the government really attack.
Why??? Because the governments can’t get the Taxes they want from the children and elderly and also because children under 18 do not become important to them until they are eligible to vote.
It’s all about the money and the vote…when it should be about ‘people’…Wake up peeps, don’t be taken in by their subliminal programming.

On a journey and embracing change

I may be busy at the moment but that doesn’t stop me from being annoyed with the fact that I haven’t been able visit my fellow Bloggers Blogs or build up a regular momentum with my own BLOG posts.
I’ve been thinking a lot about change and opportunities…for example, before we closed the business, we had an opportunity to specialise and provide off-the-shelf solutions to a particular sector.
After all our hard work and time in supplying a particular organisation with a ‘bells and whistles’ solution,  we later found out, that we couldn’t rely on a positive testimonial and recommendation as that organisation decided not to utilise the product.
The lack of testimonials and recommendations is akin to a death trap for small businesses, especially here in Britain.
That helped us to make up our mind, call it a day and go on a journey to bigger and better things.

I still have an insatiable desire to make a positive mark and I’ve had to think long and hard about certain aspects of my life in order to do so.
Lois and I both have to embrace change quickly and we have no problems in doing so, even if that means that we he have to make some tough decisions.
For me, one of those decisions concerns my writing…in order for me to build ‘consistent’ momentum with my posts, visit and read fellow writers BLOGS and complete a very important project, I’m going to have to specialise and lose my ‘jack of all trades’ status.

I will save my opinions (on the various aspects and issues of life, which affect us all) for my fellow Bloggers posts, social events, dinner parties etc.
Relationships will be my speciality and ‘For Singles and Couples’ will be my BLOG, to develop my speciality and illustrate parts of my project.

Past experiences have taught me to expect the unexpected, be prepared to work hard and deal with disappointments and set-backs.
I also have to relax and enjoy the highs which occur, accept the recognition and pleasant surprises from the most unexpected places and to always be prepared to be flexible, in order to embrace the necessary changes, which occur.
Above all, while I’m embracing the changes, I’m going to do my very best to enjoy the journey.

Before I submit another post, I will be answering my comments received and visiting others in the WordPress world.
Hopefully I’ll see you on the For Singles and Couples BLOG and hopefully you will contribute, when you can…
It’s always appreciated.